USING THE LAW OF ATTRACTION IN LOVE

USING THE LAW OF ATTRACTION IN LOVE

Or Are You?

5 Things That Make Law of Attraction "Not Work" For You... 

 #1 – You're not clear enough and/or don't ask for what you REALLY want

When you're using the law of attraction in love...    When you think you want something and set about to ask the Universe - or God -  for what you want, you must  be absolutely clear about what that is.  When you are cautious with your asking, you get cautious results.  Also, the more consistent you are in asking for the same thing over and over again, the more likely you are to get it.  This isn't because God needs to be asked more than once. YOU need to keep what it is very clear and fresh in your own mind.

If I checked with you right now, and said tell me the kind of person you are wanting the law of attractionto bring to you, how many of you would be able to give me your list of specifics?   

One lady DECIDED to write down a list of qualities she wanted in an ideal love partner. It was after doing this simple exercise that she met her current husband.  It took only three weeks from the time she wrote her must have list till they met!  She had made up her mind.  She wasn't wishing and hoping.  From the day she wrote her list she was open to and expecting the man to match it!

Really ask for what you want, not what you think you should want.   Allow the Universe to create the reality for you.   So many times we're too afraid to ask... we think we ask too much.  Or we don't believewe will get what we want.  If we really want something, but won't ask for it, we get mixed results.  If you want a man or woman that looks a certain way, you won't be pleased with 3/4 of the new ones that begin to show up in your life when you simply asked for any man or woman. You need to ask for EVERYTHING you want and be clear or you sell yourself short.

#2 – You feel no passion for what you say you want.

To consciously use the law of attraction to manifest your ideal love partner takes energy and passion.   If it were easy, everyone would be able to do it instantly.   I didn't say it's hard, but it takes energy. Think about an Olympic athlete.  They train six days a week putting a huge amount of energy toward achieving their goals.  If they believe in themselves, and persist, despite world class competition, they can walk away with the Gold.  The law of attraction responds to anything you put energy into.

How much energy do you put out in achieving your ideal soulmate?  Are you half-hearted, flipping it off most of the time by telling yourself that it won't work?   How much time and/or money have you spent in learning from successful people who HAVE used the law of attraction in love so you can copy what they do? What are you thinking about most of the day? Your job? Your bills? How lonely you are?  You get back what you think most consistently about and feel.  "But if I feel lonely, how can I think and feel I have someone great?", you might be wondering.  The same way you get up and go to work for a paycheck you don't "have" yet...   you do what is necessary to make it come on payroll day.  You put in the "work" of feeling you have this great dream person you're creating so that the day will come that you get them!

Bottom line – if you put no energy and passion into working to create and accept that who you are creating is real, even if you don't see them,  the Universe matches you with no results. The Universe always matches your energy input.

#3 – You don’t realize that you have conflicting wants

Conflicting wants confuse The Universe.   Suppose that you want to be married and you are asking to meet your future spouse, but at the same time right now you completely and totally enjoy the freedom to do whatever you want, whenever you want.  You have conflicting wants.  Your belief is that getting married will restrict your happiness and freedom.  I promise, you will sabotage your efforts to manifest your dream partner, because what happens when you have two conflicting wants? The want or desire with the greatest  EMOTIONAL CHARGE will win.  So in the example I gave you –  you are FEELING the happiness of your freedom MORE than you are feeling the happiness of getting married.  Universe keeps you single to match the greatest FEELING you're putting out.  It's the same feeling on both wants, but one is more intense.  It's that one which will be rewarded.  

The "trick" and skill is to become as aware as possible to all the different "wants" you have.  You categorize &r rate it, like you do blogs here at fanbox, to tell the Universe how high up on the things coming into your life to put this item.   

#4 – You stick to your belief system even when it isn’t supporting you

The biggest challenge in the attracting process is to uncover the emotions and beliefs that are literally blocking you from creating your dream, whether that is: a soulmate, money, happiness, whatever.   "I just can't attract money.  I never have.  I don't know how", you say.  You would rather stick with the belief that you "can't", than to make the effort to become something you've never been by acting "as if" until you do become it.

Marcus Aurelius said, "What a man can conceive and believe, he can achieve". The law of attraction states that what you believe/feel you will produce in physical reality.  If you believe you are too short, or too fat or too ugly or too poor to attract something different, the Universe will make you RIGHT! You will create what you believe to be true. If you believe that men are abusive, you will ONLY attract abusive men to your life! If you believe you can't keep money you will create circumstances into your life that takes anymoney you do manage to acquire.  

The Universe makes you RIGHT based on your beliefs.  Would you rather be RIGHT about being unable to attract money or love, or would you rather have cash coming in and a loving relationship?  

The choice is yours. It's not what you've always had or even believed that has anything to do with what you can have or believe.  Beliefs are just thoughts held to be true by you. They have power only to the extent that you believe in them.  If you DECIDE to change your thoughts and beliefs, you'll change your life.  Yes, you can just up and decide to do it.  THAT'S ALL ANYONE CAN & DOES DO ALL THE TIME.

#5 - You have not cleared SPACE in your life for what you want.  

What this means is that you have to create a vacuum in your life in order for something new and wonderful to come along. .

You know what? We are afraid of the void. We are afraid of the emptiness feeling. It is very scary for most of us, so we fill the empty space with “stuff”, “junk” and sometimes people and things that aren’t ideal for us.  The philosophy is something like, “It is better to have somebody or something rather than nobody or nothing”.

Ask God for help.   Ask God to bring you the right person or the ability to get and keep money.  THEN SIT BACK AND STOP PURSUING MONEY AND YOUR SOULMATE.  This doesn't mean you don't take action.  You need to go out and enjoy yourself.  But don't go out peering into the face of every person to see if this is IT.  Relax.  Allow it to happen naturally.   Don't work 24/7 and try to think of the super duper idea that will bring millions.  Just be open to opportunites.  Put yourself in position, but don't try to force it to happen.  This is "creating space" while enjoying what you have and are doing.  Once you "let go to let God" and begin to relax that it will happen what you want will flow into your life. 

That's when you've really begun to use law of attraction in love -- and anything else you want.  And "IT WORKS!"